- Posted by Debbie Wysocki on November 18, 2009
The core of this week’s blog entry comes from Dr. John Maxwell:
How do you look at life? Do you see a solution in every challenge OR a problem in every circumstance?
READ THAT ONE AGAIN!
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For me, it's the 'is the glass half full OR half empty' approach to living life!
What do you do when someone complains about a situation?
It just happened to me yesterday. And, immediately I went to
'What can you create with what you do have . . . instead of focusing on what you can't get because you're not where you want to be.
When you've got your health, your mind, your family's love, and the moxie to not just survive, but thrive . . .
then you've got no long-term worries!
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So what does a smart person do when faced with a challenge?
Here's what Dr. Maxwell says:
THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX
REFUSE TO GIVE UP . . . even if things look impossible.
REFOCUS YOUR THINKING . . . Mastermind with people who are solution oriented.
RE-THINK YOUR STRATEGY . . . Break a few rules . . . perhaps even arrive at absurd solutions.
REPEAT THE PROCESS . . . until you have your solution firmly in hand!
Debbie Wysocki is the owner of Women with Dreams and residual Money secrets – companies that empower the average person to live an extraordinary life by teaching how to build profitable businesses in the network marketing arena. She is a wife, mom, volunteer, a top producer in the MLM industry, a real estate investor, author, trainer, and former Beverly Hills financial analyst who is passionate about helping others succeed. Her motto is ‘How you do anything, is how you do everything!’For more information or to contact Debbie directly: Debbie@WomenWithDreams.com
954-781-6629
- Posted by Debbie Wysocki on November 10, 2009
A colleague shared this piece with me, and when I shared it in my Motivational Message last week, it got an overwhelming 'thumbs up.'
Here it is for you:
Things I Believe
A Birth Certificate shows we were born A Death Certificate shows we died Pictures show we lived!
Have a seat....Relax. ..And read this slowly.
I Believe...
Just because two people argue,
Doesn't mean they don't love each other.
And just because they don't argue,
Doesn't mean they do love each other.
I Believe... We don't have to change friends if
We understand friends change.
I Believe....
No matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt
You every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I Believe....
True friendship continues to grow, even over
The longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I Believe...
You can do something in an instant
That will give you heartache for life.
I Believe....
it's taking me a long time
To become the person I want to be.
I Believe.
You should always leave loved ones with
Loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I Believe...
You can keep going long after you think you can't.
I Believe...
We are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I Believe...
Either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I Believe...
Heroes are the people who do what has to be done
When it needs to be done, regardless of consequences.
I Believe...
Money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I Believe...
My best friend and I can do anything or nothing And have the best time.
I Believe...
Sometimes the people you expect to kick you
When you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.
I Believe....
Sometimes when I'm angry, I have the right to be angry,
But that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I Believe...
Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had
And what you've e learned from them, and less to do
With how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I Believe...
It isn't always enough to be forgiven by others;
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself...
I Believe...
No matter how bad your heart is broken,
The world doesn't stop for your grief.
I Believe...
Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are,
But we are responsible for whom we become.
I Believe...
You shouldn't be e so eager to find
Out a secret. It could change your life forever.
I Believe...
Two people can look at the exact same
Thing and see something totally different…
I Believe...
Your life can be changed in a matter of
Hours by people who don't even know you.
I Believe....
Even when you think you have no more to give, when
A friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.
I Believe...
Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I Believe....
The people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.
I Believe.....
You should send this to all of the people you believe in, I just did.
'The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
They just make the most of anything.’
Debbie Wysocki is the owner of Women with Dreams and residual Money secrets – companies that empower the average person to live an extraordinary life by teaching how to build profitable businesses in the network marketing arena. She is a wife, mom, volunteer, a top producer in the MLM industry, a real estate investor, author, trainer, and former Beverly Hills financial analyst who is passionate about helping others succeed. Her motto is ‘How you do anything, is how you do everything!’ For more information or to contact Debbie directly: Debbie@WomenWithDreams.com
954-781-6629
- Posted by Debbie Wysocki on October 21, 2009
Being able to start each day with the right mindset is important.
My sixth grade son calls it his ‘game face.’
Quick Question: What is your game face and what is it telling the world?
Here are some shared reflections to make the your week laser focused and filled with gratitude. . .
The first is a universal truth:
Out of every adversity comes a seed of equivalent or greater value.
When one door closes . . .another one opens
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My friend Max Steingart says it this way:
'YOU CAN DEVELOP SUCCESS FROM ANY FAILURE
Failure is one of the surest stepping stones to success.
No element can do as much for you as failure can,
if you're willing to study it and make capital out of it.
View every problem you encounter as an opportunity.There is always a good side to every situation.'
The optimist sees the doughnut, the pessimist sees the hole.
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For those of you that see the glass half full . . . here are a few short quotes to get you in the 'hmmm' mode:
"The thoughts we choose to think are the tools we use to
paint the canvas of our lives."
-- Louise Hay
"A moment of choice is a moment of truth. It's the
testing point of our character and competence."
-- Stephen Covey
"What you get by achieving your goals is not as important
as what you become by achieving your goals."
-- Zig Ziglar
"Trust that still, small voice that says, This might
work and I'll try it."
-- Diane Mariechild
"Success and True Lifestyle Freedom are in the Foundations
that you build on a Daily Basis"
--John DiLemme
Read Zig Ziglar’s quote it again:
'What you get by achieving your goals is not as important
as what you become by achieving your goals.'
What do you want to become?
Take a minute to identify where it is that you want to go . . .
Put you 'game face' on and know your consistent daily actions
will yield BIG results. Be like a pro football player . . . keep 'em
guessing until you're at the goal line!
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Debbie Wysocki is the owner of Women with Dreams and residual Money secrets – companies that empower the average person to live an extraordinary life by teaching how to build profitable businesses in the network marketing arena. She is a wife, mom, volunteer, a top producer in the MLM industry, a real estate investor, author, trainer, and former Beverly Hills financial analyst who is passionate about helping others succeed. Her motto is ‘How you do anything, is how you do everything!’For more information or to contact Debbie directly: Debbie@WomenWithDreams.com954-781-6629
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